After decades of focus on learning and striving, I began to question what I was learning and striving for, when the question of what is objectively valid is up in the air, given the unknown breadth of existence, my short time in a body, and the limitations of my physical senses.
It may be semantics, but I’d rather focus on experiencing, rather than learning and striving. Even though I may learn and strive, I’ve decided I’m here for the experience of it–to be as present as I can during my temporary stay.
That’s not to say you should do the same. The beauty of our ambiguous, seemingly purposeless reality is that we get to explore our boundaries and craft our own purpose.
I really do like those musings of yours. Probably because I agree with so much of it! 😄
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Thanks! Good to know they resonate! 🙂
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I really connected with that!
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Gives a lot to think about!
Gwen.
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True. Walk through a cemetery… the names, dates, and sentiments are almost illegible after the passing of a mere century… who remembers them?
So might as well make hay while we’re on this side of the ground, and squeeze in all the experiences we can… hmmm… where’s that brochure about skydiving… 😂
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Same! I much more want to focus on experiencing these days. Striving not so much anymore…
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It’s definitely overrated!
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We could be on the same page as far as “striving” goes but we differ a bit on learning. At least, in that, I see learning as experiences – or they can be…I’d love to learn to fly a plane, that would be both, right? I learned about “close-up” and “slight of hand” types of magic and while, for me, the mystery is gone when I watch a magician, it was both an opportunity to learn and and experience in the learning how then performing the tricks myself. Just some thoughts.
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I think we’re on the same page. I like the experience of learning, but in the past it has been more weighted toward gaining a comparative advantage, rather than enjoying the process.
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I relate to this so much. I’ve spent so much of my time looking for a higher purpose, something that would explain why I’m here, why I like the things I like, what I need to accomplish. Turns out, there isn’t an answer. Which is the best case scenario, because it means you can be whatever you want to be. You can choose to like things you didn’t like before. Reminds me of when Douglas Adams said ‘Isn’t it enough to see a garden is beautiful without having to believe that there are fairies at the bottom of it too?’
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Not only is it beautiful enough, I believe more beauty presents itself when you abide in that state of acceptance and appreciation!
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I second that, we never know when the ride will be over, so we might as well enjoy the view and the company we have
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I’ve always enjoyed the experience of learning. I think it widens one’s perceptions and makes it possible to enjoy other experiences.
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Good point! Learning with the intent of enjoying more of life. I like it!
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Thank you for sharing your perspective. Each of us needs to select which drummer’s rhythm we want to emulate.
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are we learning ‘cause we’re told,
or learning ‘cause we chose to?
are we striving for a goal
or striving ‘cause our foes do?
and what if we just stop?
let the masquerade just drop?
and what if we just be?
how much more will we all see?
it’s said the world is small,
yet who’s experienced it all?
I wonder why I stall
when I’ve experienced the call
of what I’m meant to do
and who I’m meant to be
how long ‘til my life’s through?
when will my dreams break free?
can a musing from you
be enough to inspire
another to pursue
their heart’s true desire?
I’m hoping so
thanks for posting
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Very nice! Yes indeed, the heart’s true desire is, in my experience, the most harmonious way to live. I’m happy if one of my musings facilitate that, but I’m just as happy if someone rejects my musings because they are truly in line with their heart and soul!
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love your poem
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I started drafting a very similar post earlier today. I’m with you!
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Very cool! Great minds think alike!
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Yes. Experience is the BEST teacher. We took our 3 kids out of high school to travel with a van and trailer around the U.S. for 14 months. We went to the 48 contiguous states, parts of Canada and Mexico. They learned more on the road than in a classroom – indelible lessons about our country from sea to shining sea, the variety of cultures and landscapes. They returned to school with a greater appreciation of their country and a love of travel. Life is short – enjoy the ride.
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What a great gift for them! It sounds awesome and enlightening!
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I trust this is a good year for you on your life journey.
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