I regard my feelings in an illogical sense; I believe they depend on my personal focus and nothing more. It took a long time for me to come to this conclusion, but after seeing I could be happy in miserable conditions and miserable in happy conditions, I realized that my perception of events is a function of perspective—possibly the greatest creative act I could ever engage in. (For me, this isn’t as simple as flipping the positivity switch, but more along the lines of settling into the most positive feeling that resonates—even if that’s anger or frustration—and accepting/abiding in it, not inflaming it, until it opens into something more positive like boredom, mild irritation, or mild satisfaction, which pave the way for actual positivity.)
Often, it takes a little while for my perception to influence (become?) reality, but that lag-time is good. It allows me to clarify what I truly want.
Dirty Sci-Fi Buddha 
Absolutely!
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True, you have to defeat your anger and frustration or it eats you alive.
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Much food for thought. It’s true one can be happy in miserable surroundings, but perhaps more so that one can be miserable in happy surroundings.
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It’s pretty nuts. You can see it in celebrities, but when it’s happened to me, it’s still taken me by surprise.
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Yes, perception is everything!
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Some days I can look at a tree and think “Oh, how beautiful.” Other days I can look at the same tree and think “Meh.”
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You and me both!
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Excellent perspective about how our perception works. As you state, it is even more effective when we exercise patience.
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Great! Thank you.
Gwen.
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What do you truly want? I want a smallholding for my wards, an acre to grow fruit, a koi pond and a heritage collection of furniture to fill it! My body of husband to be present daily with my good book in hand, a great new personality and a sex drive that does not need directions! lol 🤣 next twenty year project! what is yours!
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My desires are pretty vanilla, actually. I want a spacious condo overlooking a beach, with a nice patio and grill so I can cook and eat while watching the sunset. Also a couple of dogs. 😊
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That seems easy enough, you done it yet? I have a stately home, in the middle of mordor but i need space to grow, children to house and a west wing to swing from! nice idea though! were about’s would you want to be? Vanilla, i am with you on that one i love the beach! i have a German shepherd called Zena! Maybe i could be your gini! lol😉💕
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I’m letting it happen. The elements are definitely falling into place! 😊 As the genie, you’d spend a lot of time on your knees, HEH heh heh! 😈
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Mmmm not sure how tall are you i reckon if your over 6ft, there may be a bonus to the height difference! Otherwise i probably would! post you sending waves through my inner sanctum, again and again, and again! i will get some ice for that tongue! lol 😁speaking of ice on a hot day! mmmhh 😊good job your not here coz you would be running! lol 😈
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Sorry I’m 5’8″. That’s the tradeoff for having a muscled body and a thick wiener! 😅
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Perfect; 5ft 4, Adonis working out bandage number 7, I have long legs and a short chest space, impacted by 40 HH, i will just get on my tip toes!😜sliding, gym buff, wolf pack or pizza delivery guy?😎
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Or you can get on your back or your knees. 😉
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Or we could work it out together, give our knees a rest ! A little imagination a lot of victorian sleeping method (head to toe) side spooning could be effective! lol pre-pedicure not that you will notice the feet too busy …. oh ohh oh hhhhhhh
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side spooning comes with groping. Hope you enjoy both! 🤣
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i was thinking of many layers of revers face friction” Bryan adams, the worlds sharing expression!” the summer of !” never mind grope away at least my body will remember what loving hands feel like! Is that a bottle of wine or are you pleased to see me! lol
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Honestly I don’t really drink, but I’m not against it if it helps the mood! 😂
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I never did either, my son was set in a catholic school and i interned many famiies and staff teaching to raise special children in the lowest levels until our release, i fulfil all religious requirements, my house was in ICU for over a year balancing and killing those blocking her transition! A glass just set me at vatican and bank centre, when i need to exert my authority! current parliament crisis, someone tried to kill all masters on the way in from the balance! challenge accepted…. relying on my men would be good if the murderers of their house were not trudging their bodies t their house with my remaps attatched! “meet joe black!” grrrr
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japanese version are called jin! gifts granted who cares for spelling! not always good gifts either! alot of time granting wishes and watching you rub your lamp! I can think of better outcomes! lol…….oh ohh ohhh new email!
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Is that your thing? Watching a hot-bodied, flirty author rub his lamp? 🤣
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Definately not i expect to be jasmine and get taken around the world! not on a rug the kids would be falling everywhere…epic tale i should get my disney father on it mortess on tour ! 😋 🍑
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Taken around the world, eh? So you DO want some hotel naughtiness! 😂
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I love travelling! beautiful views tropical weather and all inclusive bar and buffet, jet set who went to mexico and decided to fix the world! with Dance and intelligence!
Miss independant….. world peace lol🤣
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Room service and clean sheets…absolutely! 😏
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A spare the sheets and play in the sun! privately lol 🏖️ the pool, long walks…or skinny dipping! lol
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I hope there’s somewhere to lay down; I’m usually comatose and unresponsive right afterwards. Ladies like to clean me off and giggle at how I lurch because I’m super sensitive, and how they get to momentarily own such a girthy specimen! 🤣
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i will bring you back religiously…unless you are naughty! i might fix your world! x
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Bring me back with your mouth! 🤣
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With you it would be essential, mouth to mouth, you checking my…heart and me checking your temp! lol service records of champions! lol🔥 😈
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My thermometer’s girthy; I hope it doesn’t make your jaw ache! 🤣
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Who says i was using my mouth? maybe for a warm up…..riding you back in! While your down their! ha ha ha 😈
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I tend to stretch things out, but in an extremely pleasurable manner! 🤣
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Whenever you are man enough, will need a lot of foreplay to prep for that event! lol 😈 end of never!
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I always go slow for the first few strokes. Still go deep, though! 🤣
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The world is your oyster! Apparently i missed the part where i could have played every day with someone i love! Should have kept my own soccor team!? 😏 Loyalty for twenty years and a small anthropology event on phones sets him off! I want to !/#;!
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You need a live-in Kent Wayne! 🤣
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are you offering your services…next twenty years in naughty love and kindness! † 😏 i pay extra attention to detail! 🔥 😈🍄
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Particularly with the sucking and licking! 😉
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All i want for christmas is mint icecream and a few bottles of baileys! some ice and A magic flash! 😈 lol sounds so wrong…did you spend a lot of time in a mac in walking spaces? 👹 😂
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Probably want my tongue and some ice cubes as well! 😉
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a hole bag of ice cubes…….
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My tongue is in for a workout! 🤣
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Once i have had my fill! lol you really should see me as inspirational not obstructive and key to your next leap into sensual narrative, How i met your mother! by Kent Wayne…..lol 🍨 you will still have time i grant you my summer house to sit in at work time and i will just stand by the patio doors with a cuppa and a smile! lol email event! 😋 🍑
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Better be ready to set it down so I can get to work on you! 🤣
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Your great works! lol ice, mini bar and icecream are an essential! i will need a few hours tlc!
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Not sure you could last a few hours, you’d probably pounce on me within a few minutes! 😂
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yes well! you would probably magic flash to the wrong house! no good for my love life! passionate….going to end up eating someone!🔥 😈
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i am not joking! combine your soccor moms with my new friends who i accidently duplicated from phones to web! tee hee..few freed lock ins! We could set them to rampage and play hooky from our responsibilities! lol They are so sweet, international wife..JC 90% do not care but the lovers are still conflicted! …. my life make your minds up i am not staying celebate because you chose the wrong houses, families and friends! as they are not lights….my right to love and enjoy myself! ☣ Fallout at least you get to rebuild somewhere new! hey took rings off and chose another house! I need a lover!
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You miss read that totally phallic symbolism baby! i spent twenty years sober, when i release i have a glass of wine, If they are sad i party and have a few! We are celebrate the things we enjoy, just missing our loved ones!
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Well if it’s about your release, then let’s have us a drink! 😉
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The right person i do not need to drink, it is to set in the catholics i minded for twenty years with no requirement, releasing them while someone is running with our family arc! You can sweep me off my feet any time!💋🌹
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You’re sounding more and more submissive. That’s a good thing–as I said before, I’m super fun when I’m dominant! 😏
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Do not take my decision to release as submissive, on the borders personlities need releasing! i do not want to be carrying degenerates for the next twenty years! you are strong enough to match my fire it is mutual! you get me riled and grrrrrr! but if it is in a play pattern i like wel so be it! lol😥 😜
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Oh it’s definitely play! I plan on making sure you enjoy the game as much as possible! 😉
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As per email! i will catch you off guard! zzzzzzz
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