Kent Wayne

Musings

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For me, emotional intelligence is about intuiting the fastest possible route toward a positive mindset (which translates to a positive perspective, which psychologically primes me to look for opportunities and advantages).

Sometimes, this means deliberately choosing a positive thought.  But if I try to jump the gun and become too positive too fast (if it feels forced and phony) then it ends up working against me, locking me into a more negative state of mind.  So sometimes, it means abiding in the negativity, patiently waiting for it to relax its hold so I can move freely toward a better emotion.

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10 responses to “Musings”

  1. V.M.Sang Avatar
    V.M.Sang

    Interesting thoughts, Kent. I need to think about this one.

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  2. ibizagoldgirl Avatar
    ibizagoldgirl

    It’s more the fact that you have this thought, plus a back up, plus another back up (with justification). This puts you in a completely different perspective and one not to get twisted about.
    EI not about soothing others but understanding there is another understanding x

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    1. DirtySciFiBuddha Avatar
      DirtySciFiBuddha

      Yep. Or as I like to put it: “Feel your way towards a good state of mind.” But that isn’t as easily understood, even if it’s easier to say.

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  3. Em Avatar
    Em

    I like this. It makes sense. Unfortunately. I’d prefer to hate it because it suggests unflattering things about my own EQ, but truth is truth.

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    1. DirtySciFiBuddha Avatar
      DirtySciFiBuddha

      I’ve been a brute for most of my life, so I totally get it.

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  4. Extemporaneous Avatar
    Extemporaneous

    That’s the thing! Not jumping too fast into positive thinking without first taking at least a sideways glance at the negative ones. I mean, for me, negative things surface for a reason and provide some good fuel too. Thanks for the thoughtful post. 🙂

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    1. DirtySciFiBuddha Avatar
      DirtySciFiBuddha

      Yep. Negativity provides insight and direction, but I’ve all too often forgone the insight and direction so I can wallow in the negativity. It’s a bit tricky, sometimes.

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  5. Susi Bocks Avatar
    Susi Bocks

    Yup, and if you surround yourself mostly with those who possess emotional intelligence too, you’ll head there even further.

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  6. neuropoison Avatar
    neuropoison

    “But if I try to jump the gun and become too positive too fast (if it feels forced and phony) then it ends up working against me… So sometimes, it means abiding in the negativity, patiently waiting for it to relax its hold so I can move freely toward a better emotion.”

    Definitely. And compare with this from Dune’s Litany Against Fear:

    “I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.”

    Sometimes you have to let yourself experience a negative emotion so you can get past it.

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    1. DirtySciFiBuddha Avatar
      DirtySciFiBuddha

      Indeed! Or see that it was never that bad in the first place.

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