Musings

In my opinion, [patriotism/loyalty/allegiance] has nothing to do with being [liberal/conservative/etc.], and has everything to do with the ability to deliver a sound, well-thought out argument that contributes to the conversation.  The employment and articulation of critical thinking not only makes for a stronger individual, but a stronger collective as well.  Blind endorsement of a [flag/concept/religion/etc.] is merely tribalism.

Tribalism weakens the collective; it destroys the opportunity for uncomfortable growth (through productive debate), and wallows in a rush of simplistic elitism.  In the end, if opportunities to grow are continually neglected, then the interest will compound, and the payment will come in the form of a giant catastrophe.

Musings

If someone is better than me at something, then that means they can teach me a lesson.  If someone is a screw-up, they can serve as a cautionary tale.  Either way they can still help me, and I get to improve no matter what.

There’s no need to hold a grudge or be vindictive; there’s too much to learn, too much to accomplish.

Musings

Delaying immediate gratification at the right time (which is more often than not) is like making a sound investment that will earn interest for you down the line.

Indulging in immediate gratification at the appropriate moment is like cashing out on that same investment, and spending it on a luxury or vacation that’s super worth it.

Musings

There are few things more rewarding to me than knowing in my heart that I did my best, and that I did everything I could with what I had.

Ironically, I find that when I do this, I’m not focusing on the reward at all; I’m too busy trying to do my best.

Musings

If you can soundly argue you’ve done everything you can, then the next conclusion would be to refrain from worry, because it can only be detrimental from that point on.

There is literally nothing left to worry about.

Musings

Regardless of my beliefs/suspicions concerning the underlying nature of reality, it seems that if I take phenomena instance by instance, without giving into the emotional whirlpool fostered by the idea that intangible forces are for or against me, then I am simply solving problems, advancing through levels, and enjoying the challenge of managing my energy.

In this way, life becomes an amusing game that honors our laughable insignificance–we’re tiny little specks, marooned on a mudball that’s hurling through infinity–WITHOUT wallowing in the cynical muck of unproductive nihilism.

Musings

I’ve known quite a few people who claim to prize some amorphous concept called “spirituality,” which they define as springing from the mystical premise that the divine is in everything, and consequently, inseparable from all phenomena and all points of reference.

These people go on to deem one particular object “spiritual,” and another not, one mode of living “spiritual,” and another not, never realizing that the premise they adore is nested in an uncomfortable implication:  if everything is divine, then everything is “spiritual” as well.

I realized that for these people (who never seem to venture beyond the comfort of their obscure “spiritual” practices, justifying lack of results with more time on the meditation cushion, or reading/evangelizing some centuries-old text) it was never about embodying an omnipresent truth; it was about defining a certain way of being that allowed them to play the untenable game of one thing being “spiritual,” and another not.

In other words, it was merely about feeling good; transcendence was a smokescreen.

Musings

If there is such a thing as a non-dual, omnipotent, omniscient divinity that comprises everyone and everything, then being agnostic (not claiming to knowing whether it exists or not) may be the purest expression of its being.  Because if it IS non-dual, then it encompasses believers and non-believers alike.  And if it IS omnipotent, then it doesn’t need me to champion it, evangelize it, or defend it.

So where does that leave me? 

It leaves me with the basics.  Enjoy what’s happening.  Do the best I can with what I have.  Be nice to people.  If divinity truly is non-dual, omnipotent and omniscient…

The rest is taken care of.