Musings

For any seeking to hone their awareness into a functional tool, I would advise caution:ย  at first, those who know you and share your goals will cheer you on.ย  Then, as you accomplish your goals and sharpen your perception, they will begin to grow nervous; your assiduousness will be taken as unspoken condemnation of their inaction. ย Some will ย then turn against you, for in cleaning the introspective mirror with which you observe your deepest tendencies, you will inadvertently reveal to them that they only look at a tiny fraction of their OWN mirror. ย I suspect they do this so they can continue gazing kindly on an incomplete hologram, rather than sharply assessing their full reflection.ย  As your perspective clarifies, it becomes increasingly important to exercise restraint and compassion when voicing your opinions, because some people don’t want to view themselves in a true light, whether it’s favorable or not, even though they might suffer from regular malfunction.


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32 responses to “Musings”

  1. Caution is definitely something I need to learn.

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  2. Sighs loudly …

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    1. Good sigh? Bad sigh? Need-a-cupcake-sigh-from-my-secret-cupcake-hideout sigh? LOL!

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      1. Exasperation sigh! You work so hard on the self development to find yourself alone … pass the cupcake

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      2. Oh but Suzie Cakes isn’t just ANY old cupcake…they got the buttercream filling inside! I’ve made many a cupcake addict out of people who didn’t think much of what APPEARED to be a regular cream-filled cupcake…but one bite and their eyes light upโ€”b’BAM! Hahaha!

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      3. All I can think of now is cupcake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      4. Hahaha! My writerly powers are best used to convey the glory of Suzie’s cupcakes, LOL!

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      5. Can we have a happier musing next time, they go better with afternoon tea ๐Ÿ˜Š

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      6. Apologies Gold Girl! I’m passing the buck to my shower, haha! (Most of my musings come to me in the shower)

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      7. That’s some deep thinking in the shower!

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      8. Shower, stop lights, and while I’m biking. I usually just text them to myself then post them later.

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      9. Very impressive, I always enjoy them very much

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      10. Thank You Gold Girl! ๐Ÿ˜€

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    interesting thoughts.

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    1. Thank You Cheese! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  4. Your so insightful for a man child!
    Love this! Resonates big time!

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    1. Nahโ€”I’ve just been beaten about by life and tried to reconcile it in my head. But thank you! ๐Ÿ˜€

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  5. Well, we all delude ourselves, don’t we? It’s the human condition. Sometimes I think that perhaps I try to fool myself a little less than I used to, but all progress is an illusion.

    What was that ol’ Greek word? Began with H I think…

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    1. Depends by what you mean by the word “Illusion.” I’m pretty sure you and I are going to say the same thing in the end, but in our own way. I like to think of progress as a game we can play and enjoy. But yesโ€”if you start looking into the relatavistic nature of time, and the implications that has for causality, there’s a strong case to be made that at the heart of existence, there’s no such thing as progress, simply an outpouring of phenomena.

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  6. Fear. Did I share that fun quote about holograms and fear and illusions???

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    1. Those other people are showing their fear–

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    2. You might have…sorry, but my Man Child brain forgets a lot of stuff in its scramble to dot all the “i”s and cross all the “t”s. How did it go?

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      1. “Fear is like a hologram. It seems filled with substance and when you go beyond it, you realise it was just an illusion.” J. Stearn

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      2. A wise fellow (woman?), this J. Stearn!

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      3. I think it is a gal—

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      4. Gotcha. Presumptuous on my part…perhaps you should correct your favorite Man Child with a spanking, LOL!

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      5. Gigglesnorted out loud!!!!!!!!!! You sure encourage a fangirl to want to track you down…

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      6. Hahaha! I’ll wear Christmas Pants or Vacation Pants to make my booty more slappable. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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      7. There is a creation called a spanking machine–seriously frightening, but probably something the Man Whore might find in his adventures.

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      8. Hahaha! Yeah I’ll let that premise germinate into an ad someday!

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  7. This is the absolute truth, and you say it so well. It has been my experience all my adult life. Thank you for stating it so clearly.

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    1. Thank You for the kind words Mr. Edward! I can’t take the credit–it’s my shower. All my ideas come to me in my shower, LOL!

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