Kent Wayne

Musings

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For decades, I unthinkingly accepted the premise that fulfillment was achieved through intellect and action. Then I noticed quantifiable success didn’t guarantee fulfillment, within myself or even among the wildly successful. Then I noticed if my focus was on being present and empty, I wouldn’t stay that way–well-being inevitably rushed in, for no external reason whatsoever. So now, that’s what I focus on.

I still have goals and activities and pursuits, but I’ve come to realize that my focus is paramount. As far as the actual source of fulfillment, you could give it any number of names. I just prefer to trust that it’s there.

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22 responses to “Musings”

  1. T. W. Dittmer Avatar
    T. W. Dittmer

    Good thoughts, Kent. Do what you think is best.

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  2. Nemesis Brown. Avatar
    Nemesis Brown.

    I like this way of thinking…
    Followed you on X.

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  3. Mind Stroll Avatar
    Mind Stroll

    Action seems to help me the most. It depends on the action being performed. Helping others is always a good one. It helps me get out of myself and into the present.

    Good work.

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  4. Vanya Wryter Consulting Avatar
    Vanya Wryter Consulting

    Do what you need to do to accomplish your goals!

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  5. Brett Austin Avatar
    Brett Austin

    Well said!

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  6. amazing world Avatar
    amazing world

    Hmm, dear, this speaks to me. My watchwords are simple:

    1. My happiness comes first—and that happiness comes from seeing others happy.
    2. It’s better to laugh than cry.
    3. I don’t keep friends, I keep brothers and sisters—because true family looks out for each other.
    Let me just stop here.

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    1. DirtySciFiBuddha Avatar
      DirtySciFiBuddha

      Your watchwords resonate with the understanding that we’re all connected by something deeper and benevolent, and that we may all indeed be that something at our core. I wish you the best!

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  7. amazing world Avatar
    amazing world

    Thanks darling most people misunderstand the number 3 but am grateful you understand it any body that looks out for you wether from the same parents or not is your brother

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  8. amazing world Avatar
    amazing world

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  9. Vintage Vixen Avatar
    Vintage Vixen

    Thank you for the cosmic reminder! “Well-being is like a cat 🐈‍⬛… it only shows up when I stop trying to chase it! 🐾

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    1. DirtySciFiBuddha Avatar
      DirtySciFiBuddha

      I love that analogy!

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  10. Make Your Own Peace Avatar
    Make Your Own Peace

    This is such a beautiful, relatable, and succint revelation. Thank you 🙂

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  11. Lori Pohlman Avatar
    Lori Pohlman

    Wise words!

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  12. Andy Cripps Avatar
    Andy Cripps

    Yessir… very wise.

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  13. Matthew Pungitore Avatar
    Matthew Pungitore

    Interesting post. Good work. Do you use mantras for focus and clarity? Would you consider yourself a Buddhist? What branch of Buddhism?
    I am trying to learn more and more about Buddhism and Buddhist teachings every day.
    Yours truly,
    Matthew Pungitore

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    1. DirtySciFiBuddha Avatar
      DirtySciFiBuddha

      I wouldn’t consider myself a Buddhist. Just someone who likes to borrow from any form of mysticism

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  14. David Booker Avatar
    David Booker

    So many people have said it I don’t know who did first but it makes me think of the phrase – Be Here Now.

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    1. DirtySciFiBuddha Avatar
      DirtySciFiBuddha

      It’s a great phrase! Hope you’re doing well, David!

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  15. edmondslance Avatar
    edmondslance

    Under appreciation is kind of where a lot of us find ourselves.

    Alas, I am only a legend in my own mind.

    Keep on keeping on Dirty Scifi Buddha 👍🤓

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  16. Mike Adams Avatar
    Mike Adams

    This is an awesome way to think!! Really impressive, and fits me! Thank you

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  17. Fatova Mingus Avatar
    Fatova Mingus

    You know Saint Paul said that before he speaks he has to empty himself of intellect. I’m not saying everybody should be Saint Paul but for some reason you’re using here reminded me of that act of humility. I’m a little buzzed so I don’t know maybe I missed the point.

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  18. R.R. Orange Avatar
    R.R. Orange

    We’re totally on the same page. I noticed that I feel happy when walking my dog and staying present in the moment, so I’ve decided to always stay present, as much as possible and not let thoughts of the past or the future distract me.

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