The cool thing about accepting my negative feelings—telling myself it’s fine to feel that way—is that my focus shifts from negativity to acceptance.  Then I can reach for positivity.


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  1. Indeed. Being in Denial clouds everything, stifles Creativity.
    We are all jerks from time to time…looking in the mirror and saying ‘Well. That could have gone better. Couldn’t it?’ is liberating.

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    1. True! I believe we were meant to live mostly in that liberation. The unpleasantness just helps us clarify what we want.

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    1. Thanks for the share!!

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  2. Sounds like a good step forwaed! Congratulations!!

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  3. True. Or… stick the memory in a broom cupboard and throw away the key.

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  4. I try to practice accepting my feelings, but it’s not easy. Good for you! That’s a very eastern philosophy isn’t it? Here in the west, we shove those feelings down however we can!

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    1. I did that for years and just got tired! 😅

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  5. Agreed, much easier this way. :))

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    1. SO much easier! 😁

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  6. So true. Denying and pushing away negative feelings only makes them stronger. Turning inward to those feelings and asking, “why am I feeling this negativity?” is the way to minimize and move through. That is what I have I have to do to get through the negative tornado that torments me on a regular basis.

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    1. Yes! I used to only get rid of negativity after fighting it and becoming exhausted. I just got lazy after awhile, lol.

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  7. Is this a mindfulness ploy? A marketing trick? We all fart in church (metaphorically). If we were perfect, there wouldn’t be a trail of dead bodies from the shopping cart corral to the door.

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  8. Wise words.

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  9. Thanks for sharing your musings! I do something similar to you. I tell myself to embrace the futility or accept the inevitable, and then I end up feeling better as I let go of things beyond my control (or at least try to).

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    1. I do that as well! It definitely works better when I’m on the more negative end of things, but I gotta ease off the futility when I start vibing positive.

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