Like everyone else, I like feeling good about my image but that’s a fickle thing; perhaps I screw up, or someone effectively ridicules me, or I don’t perform to my own expectations.  So rather than self-image, I prefer self-respect.  Regardless of how I see myself, I want to trust in my ability to conquer adversity and solve problems.  This requires constant effort—constant training.  I have to keep producing evidence that I’m being proactive, that I’m thinking clearly, and that I’m not falling prey to fatuous comforts or narrow-minded ideals.


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  1. Agreed. Although it is so hard to forego primacy of self-image for self-respect when so much of what we are trying to do depends on image in general, how things “look”. It’s a catch-22.

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    1. Everybody loves the phrase, “Don’t judge a book by its cover,” but actively doing just that is very lacking in this world… a shame.

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    2. Indeed. I think it’s similar to immediate vs. long-term gratification.

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    Viola Bleu

    Good snippet of advice here 👏🏼👏🏼

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  3. The battlefield of my ideals!

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