After brute-forcing my way through much of my life, after encountering numerous rough spots, I have come to believe the easiest way forward is not endless chains of mental gymnastics, but allowing myself enough space and uncertainty to intuit the answer, live it, and be it.
It may not make sense, it may evoke contrary data and countless arguments, but long-term, it works for me if no one else.
And in the end, it only has to work for you. Nothing wrong with that!
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I totally agree with this. There is only one person in your life that you have to wake up with every single day. Keep that person happy for it is you.
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Absolutely! That’s also the person you spend the most time with, the one who’s with you sleeping, eating, and through all the mundane stuff like going to the bathroom or sitting at a drive-through. I’d like to be nice and respectful to him.
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Here here
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I get it. 😊
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aha!
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😊
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Positive stuff
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What works for you is the way to go.
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Indeed!
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“The easiest way forward is not an endless chains of mental gymnastics…”
I have also just come to believe that improvement is all about mindfulness. The easiest ways we reach improvement are repetition and punishment. Think about the purpose of REPETITION, the more you engage in the same task, the more you do it over and over, the more alertness your brains receive during that task. And so the pathways for impulses are shortened, a form of mental shortcut is created. Think about the first man who thought,”For a car to move faster, it doesn’t need to be bigger.” In a cartoon I saw some months ago,titled The Dragon Prince (by the man who created Avatar: The last airbender), the sailor said, “After you are in the elements long enough, you’ll get a feeling of where the wind is and how it’s about to change. It’s like a connection deep in me bones.” Indeed, repetition is the profound way to improve.
As for punishment, scientists do know this, and they often try some things on rats. Here it is about (mental) expectation and result and the degree of correlation between the two, the great cognitive psychologist, Daniel Kahneman know this well.
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Yes, I’m a giant fan of mindfulness. I believe it’s critical to fully allowing our subconscious to help us out and leverage not-so-obvious opportunities, instead of tying up our perceptions with rigidly logical reasons why something has to be a certain way.
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hmm…so much wisdom!
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Love this. Thanks
Gwen.
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You’re welcome! Thanks for the kind words!
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I like this. Intuition is powerful.
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It sounds like you gained clarity and peace with the realization.
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It’s definitely helped me relax!
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gut, instinct, intuition … divine sign….a lot to be said… https://ruparaoruminates.wordpress.com/
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