Musings

When I try to let things go, I usually get hung up on two aspects–the effort or “trying” and my focus on whatever I’m trying to let go of.

When I let things be (like the Beatles sang about), it works out better for me. I’m allowing everything–not just the object of my negative focus–to exist as it is, and I’m no longer trying. Ironically, this allows me to let go much faster, and I can home in on what I truly want. For me, the distinction is small but important. I’ll still outwardly tackle issues and tasks, but while I’m doing so, I’ll continue tidying up my inner landscape.

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  1. When I was writing my first published book I made a decision to eliminate the word try from my vocabulary. (That connotes I may or may not). As someone who had never written a thing before – I said I AM WRITING A BOOK rather than I am TRYING to write a book. Using that approach has gotten me through successfully in becoming an award-winning author.

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    • Nice! Yes, I believe that the surface consciousness can be obstructive if it’s too focused on controlling outcomes. It’s meant to add sauce and seasoning to the dish, and sauce and seasoning are not meant to replace the entree, at least in my opinion.

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